I did that too. When I had the blood tests done with my third, and I said "YES< ITS A BOY!" secretly I was saying, if it's not a boy well, then what??? Anyway, ours had a penis so we knew it was XLI. Had it been a girl, I would have wondered just like you, carrier etc. At least if you stop and think about it, she has one of the best sorces of support she will ever need. She will have an uncle for her children that understand. She will have a mom that has walked in her shoes, with excellent ideas and suggestions. And, I know this is a huge jump to the future, but a wonderful understanding grandmother for her children. LOL Congrats again...how are you feeling otherwise? Do you have energy? Are you sick at all? LOL I just love comparing pregnancys..they are all so different.