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#13832 - 04/15/07 09:42 PM Re: Hello from SJ, CA USA
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Thank you for that compliment. We've had two years to soak all this in. It's been quite a journey...one most could not imagine except for those living it. We're so determined to continue searching for ways of making Dane's life as great as it can be. And his brother and sister are so wonderful with him. They add so much to his life. Dane is truly a blessing to our family.

As for physical development, Dane started walking with assistance at about 11 months old, and walked on his own at 14 months old. He's now running (more like jogging), but I find it stressful as he gets very cut up if he falls. His arms are weaker, though, so he didn't pull up in the crib until way after walking. As a matter of fact, he thinks it's really fun now to drop to the floor and crawl a bit because he finally has the upper strength to do so. All three of my kids have more of the gymnast stature. I often think about what my other two were doing when they were his age. They were jumping at 13 months old, swinging from playground equipment, etc., but Dane still doesn't get two feet off the ground at the same time, and still wouldn't swing from something. I know the situation is much different with him, but I think he's doing great considering what he's been through. His fine motor skills are really good. He eats with utensils, and loves to color. I bet Julia will just start doing it all at the same time, too. I have friends whose little ones didn't walk until 20 months old. Even the healthiest of kids are all different!

Thanks for your compassion about the teeth extractions... it was traumatic. Thankfully, he did just fine, and still has a beautiful smile [img]http://www.ichthyosis.com/ubb/smile.gif[/img]. I don't worry about him knocking his teeth out anymore [img]http://www.ichthyosis.com/ubb/smile.gif[/img]. As for the brittle nails, I did the same thing to one of Dane's toenails! Ouch is right!

I'm looking forward to meeting Mary Williams. We had a doctor tell us that if she looks at Dane and says NS, to take that as a yes. We're already there, but it'll still be nice to get some unput from her. It'll be so nice to meet you as well at the next convention. It sounds like it was a very special event.



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Originally posted by CShell:
It really is frustrating that a lot of doctors don't know much about Netherton's, let alone ichthyosis in general. The first dermatologist we saw just kept saying it was atopic dermititis, even though the hyrocortisone he prescribed for her *entire* body wasn't making a difference.

I think for parents to be related, they'd have to have the same exact mutation, and even then they could be like, 50th cousins removed or something. DH and I have different mutations, so we're definately not related lol

Also just thought I'd add, Julia's tested a few months ahead with her cognitive development, though she's quite a bit behind with her physical because of the failure to thrive. She's just starting to crawl, walk with assistance, and pull up, and she's 18 months old. Most people with NS that I've talked to didn't walk until they were closer to 2. I think doctors associate a slower mental development rate with NS, because of the high incidence of failure to thrive. If it gets bad enough, it *can* affect mental development b/c their not retaining enough nutrients. Luckily we caught it and fixed the problem, so this isn't the case with Jules. I don't know anyone with NS that has any mental development problems, actually.

Julia's nails are really brittle, especially on her feet. I accidentally snapped off one of her toenails just trying to clip it with clippers. So owch lol We haven't noticed any problems with her teeth, and our last ped. said we shouldn't expect any - because while usually hair problems lead to nail/teeth problems, the hair problems with NS is in the DNA mutation and not anything else (lack of nutrients, whatever, that leads to brittle teeth). Interesting about his teeth, and I'm sorry he had to go through an extraction!! Sounds painful!

Dr. Williams is fantastic, we met with her once after Jules was diagnosed. She sees a lot of ichthyosis patients. We got ridiculously lost in San Francisco trying to get there, too lol She recommended a cream called Triceram, which when we first used it (Jules was about 5 months old) didn't work at all; but this past December we bought it again and it made a difference in her inflammation. However, it only worked for 2-3 weeks, and then stopped. Plus it's pretty expensive for such a small tube! lol

You sound like you're handling all this really well, much better than I did when Julia first started to have problems. We'll look forward to meeting you at the conference as well, we went last year and it was one of the best experiences I've had!

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#13833 - 04/15/07 11:20 PM Re: Hello from SJ, CA USA
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Hi Becky,

Thank you for all of your input. I don't blame your Mom for wishing she had something like this board. My husband and I are totally committed to making Dane's life a wonderful one, but what better way to accomplish that than by utilizing a board like this one. Your parents must also feel so proud of you, as they get to see how much you can help others through sharing your own life experiences. Nothing would make me happier than to see Dane so the same someday in order to bring some assistance, comfort and hope to others.

I actually looked into Phisoderm, but found out exactly what you did. Funny, that's what my Mom kept asking me to look into, as that's what she bathed all her babies in (I'm 35, too). I understand the need to keep things mild, but I think just bathing Dane in water is what contributed to all of our problems with the staph. I think to do as you mentioned, bathing him at least a few times a week with a cleanser will be helpful (the other times with just water...we currently bathe him at least 2x/day). It helps me to know what you experience when you start to get sensitive, as with little ones we don't always know if they're crying from pain or from being too cold, etc.. And when their skin always appears fragile, it's hard to tell what exactly is bothering them. Now that Dane is talking a bit, he can tell me a little more. Is body temperature a real problem for you? It sounds like it if you can get so warm you pass out! That must be so difficult! Sometimes Dane's extremities can look a bit bluish. I often wonder if he has circulation problems, or if it's just his body's inability to regulate temperature very well. I especially notice that when he has a bad flare up. He's now able to say "I cold, Mama", so I'm thinking it's mostly his inability to naturally keep warm in those times. On the other hand, Dane definitely can sweat. At times, I'll pull him out of his carseat and he'll be ringing wet, even if the car wasn't that warm. His skin is much itchier when he's sweaty. His sweat really seems to irritate him. I think Aquaphor mixed with hydrocortizone would be a good treatment for really itchy days.

As for food allergies, Dane only showed a slight egg white allergy. I know he was sensitive to dairy for awhile, even though he didn't test to be so, as he'd vomit after eating cheese. He handles dairy products fine now, but we limit his amount as he can get a little phlemy with colds when he drinks it.

Did your mother vaccinate you and your brother. I've really battled with this decision. I really have fought it, agreed to do one last year in order to complete an immune study on Dane (his immune system appears to be normal), but I regretted the decision. It was the Prevnar vaccine, as I thought it'd be one of the safest. He was perfectly healthy when I took him in, but within 24 hours of getting the vaccine, he had a 102 fever, within 48 hours he had double ruptured ear drums, and his skin peeled like a sunburn for 3 weeks. Needlesstosay, I haven't been in a hurry to vaccinate, but I do worry about diseases like chickenpox. Any suggestions? Oh, and the doctor I was going to completely denied that the shot had anything to do with Dane's reaction....yet didn't insist on me giving him the next one.

Thanks again for listening and for helping. I really appreciate it.

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Hi Suzanne, I'm glad that the aquaphor works well for you, over the last 35 years, I've tried many different creams/lotions. But aquaphor has been the only one that my skin doesn't get used to and continues to work well for me. The other thing I use for my legs especially is 2%hydrocortisone mixed with aquaphor. As far as soaps go, when I was little my mom usually just bathed my brother and I in plain water, because all the soaps were to bad on our skin. We did use a soap called Phisoderm for a long time, but they changed the formula about 10 years ago, and I can't use it anymore. I've had good results with Aquaphor Gentle Wash, but it really is tough to find. I found it at a CVS Pharmacy. But even with that, I can't use it everyday, or I start to react to it. So still plain water is best. His symptoms really sound like NS to me, and my best advice to you would be to trust your instincts on what you think. If you think that he has NS, I would go that route in treating him. You are the BEST judge, and in my opinion doctors really don't know that much about it anyways. Back in 1970 and 1971 there wasn't a test to determine that it was NS, they just checked for the bamboo hair. We did have lots of allergies when we were younger. We were allergic to oranges, grapes, tomatoes, chocolate, egg whites, all types of nuts, peanuts, and peanut butter, and soy. We grew out of most of the allergies, but we still are allergic to nuts, peanuts, peanut butter, and egg whites.

Is Dane allergic to anything? As far as itching goes, my recommendation to help control that would be to keep the benedryl and hydroxizine in his system full time. He will be very tired in the beginning, but once he has a constant level in his system, he should get used to it. My brother and I got through our childhood taking both of those two together round the clock. Even now at 35 when I am really having a hard time with the itch (usually during change of seasons) I start taking my benedryl and hydroxizine round the clock. Have you noticed if he is able to sweat? I don't sweat well at all, so when it is really hot and humid, I have to be careful that I don't overheat, because then I pass out.

Did I ask you how often you bathe him? I have to shower everyday, sometimes 2x a day. But sitting in the bath really helped with the red weepy areas when I was little.

Please feel free to email me with any questions, and I hope that I will be able to help in some way. My mom wishes that something like this board would have been around when my brother and I were little, as she felt so isolated. But she and my Dad really did a fantastic job.

Hope to talk to you soon again!

Becky

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#13834 - 04/16/07 01:49 AM Re: Hello from SJ, CA USA
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I can regulate my body temp pretty well. The coldest I usually get is at night when I'm trying to sleep, so I always wear pajama pants and top, not usually shorts or nightgowns. Simply because I get colder at night, and it is harder to scratch myself through a layer of fabric. My brother on the other hand sweats really well, and does much better in hotter weather, but just like Dane, when he sweats it makes him itch a lot more, and irritates his skin more. So he makes sure that he showers afterwards.

The egg white allergy doesn't surprise me. Did you say that he had allergy testing? If he hasn't and you would like to at some point, don't let the doctors do a scratch test, because my guess is that because his skin is SO sensitive he will react to everything. Ask for a blood test (it's called a RAST test) you can test up to 5 different things with one little vial of blood, and then he is only poked once. I have the egg white allergy, but it is to raw egg whites, if the eggs are fully cooked, then it is ok. Is there a difference for Dane?

My mom did vaccinate us, we had everything except the smallpox vaccine, which the doctors at the University of MN said that we could never have one, because instead of protecting us from smallpox, it would most likely cause it in us. I don't know if his reaction to the prevnar vaccine was due to the possible NS, it certainly could be. But my oldest daughter who is totally unaffected (all 3 of my children are unaffected, I have 3 daughters) when she was 15 months old, she got the MMR shot. She too was completely healthy when I brought her in, but 24 hours later she had a double ear infection, and 101 fever, and 24 hours after that her fever went up to 104, and she had pneumonia and had to be hospitalized. It really is so hard to know what the best decision is. As far as chickenpox goes, there wasn't a vaccine when we were little, and I remember having them, but I really don't remember them being really terrible, but then again my mom was doing a great job of keeping me comfortable. She had to deal with my brother first, and then 2 wks later I came down with them. I think we just took a lot more baths, with and without oatmeal, and she probably gave us a ton of benedryl and hydroxizine [img]http://www.ichthyosis.com/ubb/smile.gif[/img] I know that in MN a child has to have the chickenpox vaccine in order to attend school. Again that is a tough one, but I'm sure whatever you decide will be the right decision. And don't ever let a doctor talk you into something that you don't feel completely comfortable with.

From what I've heard from you, I think that you and your husband are really doing a terrific job in dealing with basically the unknown right now. And Dane is so lucky to have such loving and supportive parents and siblings.

As far a finding a cleanser that works well, if you don't have a CVS pharmacy, you could always go out to the Aquaphor website and either email the company, or call them and find out where in your area you could find it. What I really like about it is that it is soap free and it didn't burn any raw areas that I may have at the time. But I also don't use it all the time, as then my skin gets too used to it. I can also use Suave Naturals in Cucumber Melon. That doesn't make me itch.

What have you used for shampoo? I have used T-Gel, but you have to be careful with the eyes, and it does burn if you have a cut ontop of your head. I'm still trying to find something that will work well on the scales and the dryness. When the scales get really bad, then I coat my head up with aquaphor and let it soak into my head overnight. It does help to get the scales out easier. I remember my mom used to have to cut the scales out, and I can remember sitting on the kitchen counter while she combed through and cut out scales. Afterwards I would always get a treat, and my favorite was marshmallows! [img]http://www.ichthyosis.com/ubb/smile.gif[/img]

talk to you soon!!

Becky

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#13835 - 04/16/07 02:25 AM Re: Hello from SJ, CA USA
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You guys should really try that Burt's Bees "Feeling Flaky" [img]http://www.ichthyosis.com/ubb/wink.gif[/img] That's my new favorite shampoo for her, except it has a medicinal smell to it lol It really works great, and you don't even have to use conditioner (Julia's hair gets really brittle when I use regular shampoo and no conditioner).

We did get her vaccinated for chickenpox, Dr. Adams and I discussed it a bit, and eventually decided to do it, because it'd be hard to keep the sores dry, when her skin needed to be moisturized all the time. I just have to remind her to get a booster when she's in her 20's, otherwise she could get shingles.
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#13836 - 04/16/07 08:28 PM Re: Hello from SJ, CA USA
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Thanks again for your input. I will try the skin care products you recommended. It's funny, I had purchased the Aquaphor wash when Dane was first presenting with a skin problem, and his derm said not to use it. I don't know what I did with it, but I know I had found it at Babies R Us. I'll look again. Coming from someone who actually has NS, I think I'll give it a try! I never thought to try the Suave Naturals Cucumber Melon. That would actually smell nice, too. Courtney, I just saw the Burt Bees shampoo at Walgreens. I'll give it a try. As I mentioned before, Dane is bald except for some fuzz only seen when you're right next to him. His scalp can really be a mess, but can be smoother at times. Right now he's having a terrible flare (I'm sure it's the staph coming back). He screams in the tub right now, which is heartbreaking. I need to get the dead skin off by bathing him, but I wish it could be more pleasant for him. I always get tension headaches on days like today, because I feel so bad for him. I wish I could feel all his pain for him!

As for his allergy testing, yes, it was a RAST test. His egg white allergy was high enough for me to not want to give him any shots with an egg white base (his old doctor said it wasn't high enough to worry about it, his new pediatrician felt otherwise). Funny, he has eaten foods with egg in them before and was fine, so I think he, too, is fine with cooked eggs.

Thank you so much about your information regarding the chickenpox vaccine. Becky, it sounds like you and your brother did just fine (I'm sure it was tough, though!). Courtney, did Julia have any adverse reaction to the shot? My pediatrician said they're now recommending a booster at 6 years old, because the vaccine isn't as effective as they thought it would be (more like 78%). My kids' friends keep getting them and they've been vaccinated. The doctors are seeing the pattern of 5-7 year olds who were vaccinated still getting them, so they're now recommending a booster. Just thought you might like to know that so that you can talk to your pediatrician about it. Did Julia react to any of her vaccines?

Becky, did you or your brother have any growth issues as children. We're so happy, because Dane is finally on the growth chart. He's in the 3% for height. Now, that being said, my husband and I aren't tall (I'm 5'2" and my husband is 5'8"), so I know our kids aren't going to be very tall anyway. It's just that in his first year of life he really suffered a lot, and stayed the same weight for about 7 months. It really affected his vertical growth. He seems to be moving right along now, but he still seems to grow and pick up weight slower than most children. Thankfully, it hasn't affected his development otherwise. He's really a character [img]http://www.ichthyosis.com/ubb/smile.gif[/img]!

I'd love to send a picture of Dane. Is there a way to do this on the board?

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#13837 - 04/17/07 12:27 AM Re: Hello from SJ, CA USA
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Hey Suzanne, I don't get the flu shot at all because it has egg in it. I would suggest the same for Dane. I'm so sorry that he is having such a rough time with his skin right now. I know how painful it can be, not just getting into the water for a bath, but then to have spread the cream all over where it hurts to touch. Tylenol does help with the pain. I do that for myself when my legs are really bad.

As far a growth issues go; I was always really little. I was only in the bottom 4% for both height and weight. It would take me forever to gain weight, even though I ate really well. People would actually make comments to my mother about how she didn't feed me enough, and also about how my skin looked. They would berate her for "not having the sense to use sunscreen on your children" and "how could you let them get so sunburned". My mom said that she wouldn't worry so much about his height and weight, as long as he seems to be keeping up with his own growth scale, and not losing weight.

I wish that I had some ideas on how to make his bath time go easier and less painful. Does he like to just sit and soak in the tub? I can remember doing that when I was young, and I sometimes still do it now when my skin is really bad. I remember that my mom would sing to us and have us help sing or pour water, or something just to keep us preoccupied so that we didn't concentrate on the initial pain of getting into the water, because it seems that once that first sting of the water and then you get past that the bath actually feels really good.

Keep me posted, and let me know if I can help in any way.

Becky

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#13838 - 04/17/07 12:48 AM Re: Hello from SJ, CA USA
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Jules was the same way - she weighed the same weight from 2 months til 8 months, and then we started the NG feeds, and she finally began to gain normally. Now, she's in the 3% for height/weight (18lbs 10oz, 29in.).

I don't remember her having any adverse reactions to shots that were notable. She did get a semi-high fever with her 3 or 4 month shots (whichever month you get it lol), but it was gone after 24 hours. Guess we lucked out in that area! I'll have to write that down about the CP shot, I didn't know that! Maybe I'll talk to her derm. about that again, they should write it in her records somewhere lol

Darnit, spilled coffee on my white duvet cover.

You can post pictures on here. Just upload your pictures to something like www.photobucket.com, and when they're uploaded, they'll give you a URL underneath the photo. It'll look something like [img]www.photobucket.com/myaccount/picture1 .com[/img]. You just paste it into a reply box (like the one I'm writing in right now) and the picture'll show up [img]http://www.ichthyosis.com/ubb/smile.gif[/img]
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#13839 - 04/17/07 12:50 AM Re: Hello from SJ, CA USA
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OK, I could have sworn someone asked how to post pictures in this thread. I'm totally losing my mind lol
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#13840 - 04/18/07 03:50 AM Re: Hello from SJ, CA USA
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Just wanted to let you know I found the Aquaphor wash at our local Longs pharmacy. Dane did great in the tub, and didn't seem to have any discomfort today. His initial flare is calming down a bit, as it was a signal that a virus was brewing. He's got a cold and is already starting to wheeze. I'm hoping he handles this one without any complications. And yes, Dane has a couple of bottles, toys and water cans of his own to play with in the tub, and is soothed by singing as well (at least I've always thought this helped a bit...maybe he'll tell me otherwise when he gets older). [img]http://www.ichthyosis.com/ubb/smile.gif[/img] I'll remember to give him Motrin or Tylenol on flare-up days before he bathes.

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Originally posted by texlex99:
Hey Suzanne, I don't get the flu shot at all because it has egg in it. I would suggest the same for Dane. I'm so sorry that he is having such a rough time with his skin right now. I know how painful it can be, not just getting into the water for a bath, but then to have spread the cream all over where it hurts to touch. Tylenol does help with the pain. I do that for myself when my legs are really bad.

As far a growth issues go; I was always really little. I was only in the bottom 4% for both height and weight. It would take me forever to gain weight, even though I ate really well. People would actually make comments to my mother about how she didn't feed me enough, and also about how my skin looked. They would berate her for "not having the sense to use sunscreen on your children" and "how could you let them get so sunburned". My mom said that she wouldn't worry so much about his height and weight, as long as he seems to be keeping up with his own growth scale, and not losing weight.

I wish that I had some ideas on how to make his bath time go easier and less painful. Does he like to just sit and soak in the tub? I can remember doing that when I was young, and I sometimes still do it now when my skin is really bad. I remember that my mom would sing to us and have us help sing or pour water, or something just to keep us preoccupied so that we didn't concentrate on the initial pain of getting into the water, because it seems that once that first sting of the water and then you get past that the bath actually feels really good.

Keep me posted, and let me know if I can help in any way.

Becky

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